Aap ki Kachehri is about a revolution...a revolution that will bring the truth before the people, bring back the small hopes that people have given up long back and give people a reason to live. Watch Kiran Bedi in the hugely popular show Aap Ki Kachehri, starting 5th August, Monday to Friday on Star Plus.
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Thursday, August 6, 2009
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really its a REVOLUTION.........
ReplyDeleteNAMASTE MADAM
ReplyDeleteMERI SHADI 19 FEB 2009 KO HUE THI AUR MERI BIVI PREGNANT AAYI THI JAB MENE BAAR PUCHA TO KEHTI H KI YE AAPKA HI BACHCHA H JAB JYADA JOR DIYA TO PATA CHALTA H KI WO USKI BADI BEHAN KE PATI KA BACHCHA H TO MENE APNA GHAR BACHANE KE LIYE USKA 22 DIN BAD ABORTION KARVA DIYA AB JAB ME USSE KEHTA HOO KE APNE JIJA SE RISHTA TOD DE TO WO MUJHE COURT CASE KARNE KI DHAMKI DETI H KE HUM LOG USSE DAHEJ KE LIYE TANG KARTE H
RAKHI PE WO APNE GHAR CHALI GAYI AUR AB MERE PURE PARIVAR PAR DAHEJ KA CASE KAR DIYA H
please usne mere pure parivar ke khilaf case kar diya h aur aap ko to pata hi h ke ladkiya ke saath thane me kaisa bartav kiya jata h
madam please help me
PLEASE HELP ME NAHI TO ME BARBAD TO JAONGA KYONKI ISS BADNAMI KE BAAD MERE DO BHAI AUR BEHAN KI SHADI ME PARESHANI AA SAKTI H
MERA EMAIL : vibrant.yogender.com
mobile 09711990458
9990665289
NAMASTE MADAM MAIN NITIN KUMAR SONI JABALPUR KA NIWASI HU MERE FATHER PESHE SE DOCTOR THE THE SE MERA MATLAB HAI KI UNKI DONO AANKHEIN BLOOD SUGAR KI BIMARI KI VAJAH SE PURI TARAH SE KHARAB HO CHUKI HAI AB WO EK BLIND KI TARAH JEEVAN JE RAHE HAI
ReplyDeleteMADAM MAIN APKO BATANA CHAHUNGA KI MERI FAMILY ME MERE ALAWA DO SISTER HAIN JINKE ABHI SHAADI BHI NAHI HUI HAI AUR MAIN ABHI APNI COLLEGE KI PADHAI KAR RAHA HU AB PURE PARIVAAR KI JIMMEDARI MERE HI KANDHON PAR HAI
MADAM MERE GHAR ME MERI DADI JI PENSIONER HAI AUR UNHE TEEN HAZAR RS. TAK PENSION MILTI HAI AGAR WO CHAHE TO MERE PARIWAAR KI MADAD KAR SAKTI HAI PAR MERE CHACHA LOGON KE DABAW ME AKAR WO BHI MADAD KARNE KO TYAR NAHIN HOTI HAI AB PARIWAAR KI SITUATION KO DEKHKAR MERE GHAR ME AYE DIN JHAGDE HOTE RAHTE HAI
AB AAP HI BATAYE AISE SITUATION ME MAIN KYA KAR SAKTA HU
KYUNKI PAPA KI DASHA KE KARAN MERA PURA PARIWAAR AAJ BIKHARANE KI SITUATION ME HAI!
MADAM MUJHE AASHA HI NAHI BALKI PURNA VISHWAS HAI KI AAP MUJHE AWASYA UCHIT SALAAH DENGI AUR MERA MARGDARSHAN KARENGI!!!!!!
pLEASE KINDLY GRANT MY REQUEST!!!!!!
hello mam,
ReplyDeletei would like to bring a revolution in the indian society. as to what these male people think of themselves they can hit badly the women as they want. mam i really need to have a talk or chat with u. plz. could u give me ur precious time.
hello mam it is really good show. my mother always see your show.
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ReplyDeleteDr. Kiran Bedi
First Indian IPS (Women)
New Delhi
Subject : Invitation as a Chief Guest.
Respected Madam
First time in Haryana VANDE MATRAM (The Power of Nation) ORGANISATION is going to organize a “SMART ENGLISH SPEECH COMPETITION” on 1st Nov. 2009 (Haryana Day) for all the students. As most of the people know that “VANDE MATRAM” is a social organization that is working in the field of IT/BPO training for last five year. Our training play a remarkable role to make an individual able to survive in today’s world. Our Motive Behind this competition is to know the talent of spoken English and its presentation.
In this State level competition more than 1000 school/college are participating and the total gathering of students & youths are near about Ten thousand. So the organizations heartily want to invite you as a Chief Guest on this educational occasion.
So on the behalf of the organization I would feel glad at your presence.
Thanking You.
Yours Sincerely,
Rajesh Kundu
Chairman
VANDE MATRAM
Organization
DSS-55, Old Court Commercial Complex,
Rajgarh Road, HISAR,HARYANA, (INDIA)
Mob. 092155-60091, 09255115448
Hello Dr. Kiran,
ReplyDeleteI am your avid fan and a regular watcher of Aap Ki Kacheri and I salute you the way you give decisions. My bad luck is that due to my shifts now I will not be able to view episodes for 2 weeks, but anyways just wanted to say you really rock and my role model, just like my mom. May God bless you with good health and shower all his love on you.
HELLO Dr,KIRANJI
ReplyDeleteNAMASTE RESPECTED FROM MY HEART & SOL
MY NAME IS Mr,RAUT I AM FROM SAN FRANCISCO BORN IN INDIA ALLWAYS THINK ABOUT INDIA I KNOW YOU ARE AWARDED LOT OF TIME &YOU ARE DOING GOOD SOCIAL WORK TODAY IS MY FRIST TIME I SAW YOUR TV SHOW Aap ki kachehri YOU ARE DOING
GREAT JOB TO THE INDIAN SOCIETY BUT I WOULD
LIKE TO REQUEST YOU TO DO SAME IN INDIAN
POLITICS SO PLEASE ENTER IN POLITICS CLEAN
THE SYSTEM YOU CAN DO BOTH AT A TIME I KNOW
YOU HAVE GREAT QUALITY OF LEADER I WISH YOU
GOOD LUCK TO YOU GOD BLESS YOU THANKS
AAP KA RAUT
Date : 28.08.09
ReplyDeleteDear Madam,
I need your humble help!!!
I got married in the year 1998. I have two sons. My husband expired in 2003 by heart attack & after four month of his death I have come back to my maternal place due to bad behaviour of my mother in - law and the continuance study of my wards as that was a backward area, but I always kept in touch with my in-laws.
In 2007, I also lost my father by heart attack, but no body came from my in-laws side on my father’s funeral. Due to this concern and misbehaviour of my mother-in-law my contact has finished from 2007 to 2009 with them.
When I tried to contact them they have not given me the proper response.
Now I want to take your kind advice on some points which are as under :
- Are my wards having rights in their property?
- Am I had right to get compensation from their side?
Madam, I also want to bring to your notice that all their property registered in the name of Mrs. Krishna (Mother –in-law) and she wants to give some parts of the property to her daughter’s kids. She never wants to give a single part of the property to my Wards. And she doesn’t want to keep any relationship with my wards and me.
Madam due to certain problems I am unable to live with them like my service, my children’s education. Her bad behavior is also a major problem.
Madam, I am hereby seeking your kind advice on this issue. You are requested to advice me and oblige.
Thanking you
Hoping for a favourable response
Yours truly
urmila gupta
ph. no. 9911423534
e-mail : umagupta.yash@gmail.com
Date : 28.08.09
ReplyDeleteDear Madam,
I need your humble help!!!
I got married in the year 1998. I have two sons. My husband expired in 2003 by heart attack & after four month of his death I have come back to my maternal place due to bad behaviour of my mother in - law and the continuance study of my wards as that was a backward area, but I always kept in touch with my in-laws.
In 2007, I also lost my father by heart attack, but no body came from my in-laws side on my father’s funeral. Due to this concern and misbehaviour of my mother-in-law my contact has finished from 2007 to 2009 with them.
When I tried to contact them they have not given me the proper response.
Now I want to take your kind advice on some points which are as under :
- Are my wards having rights in their property?
- Am I had right to get compensation from their side?
Madam, I also want to bring to your notice that all their property registered in the name of Mrs. Krishna (Mother –in-law) and she wants to give some parts of the property to her daughter’s kids. She never wants to give a single part of the property to my Wards. And she doesn’t want to keep any relationship with my wards and me.
Madam due to certain problems I am unable to live with them like my service, my children’s education. Her bad behavior is also a major problem.
Madam, I am hereby seeking your kind advice on this issue. You are requested to advice me and oblige.
Thanking you
Hoping for a favourable response
Urmila Gupta
Yours truly
e-mail : umagupta.yash1971@gmail.com
dear madam,
ReplyDeleteI'm married since last 8yrs and need your advice regarding family disputes with my husband and his family i have been cheated very badly and left in my hands i need ur help at earlies as my daughters stuying in 2nd will loose her year due to this problem how to contact you.
yours truly
poornima g
e-mail: poornimaghangale@gmail.com
Dear Kiran mam,
ReplyDeleteMy name is Byju.P.Mathew ...
i am from bhopal(M.P) and i saw every episode..
it is really good .You doing great job for the people who need your help.......
I need your blessing...
Thanks & Regards
Byju.P.Mathew
byjumathew2000@gmail.com
Phone :-0755 2711999
mam,
ReplyDeletemain ek house wife hun.main muslim hun.merishaadi 2002 mein 20 saal ki umr me hui hai.mere husband ne jhoot bol k ki wo graduate hai,nikah kiya.mere husband aur nananden shaadi k pehle saal se hi mujhe dahej kam laane ki wajah se pareshaan karte hai 4 saal se mujhe pata chala ki unka affair hai main ne pyaar se aur ladai karke bhi sab solve karne ki koshish ki.
abhi unhone mujhe saal bhar se papa k ghar chhod diye hai mera4 mahine me abortion karva diya aur talaaq doonga keh k mere charecter pe bhi bahot bure ilzaam lagaye.
mam, plz mujhe kuchh legal adv. dijiye mai graduate hu, meri 4 saal ki beti hai aur unhone mujhe talaaq nahi diya hai.wo mujhe leja bhi nahi rahe hai,na hi aage padhne de rahe hai.
mai pg karke job karna chahti hun,wo bahot shaqqi hai.mere paas unki aur unki keep ki photo bhi hai aur kuch audio recordings bhi.
kuchh logo ne slaah di hai ki main uss ladki ke upar bhi case kar sakti hun..
aap plz ye bataayen ki
- mere rights kya hai?
- meri beti ke liye unse kya kya clame kar sakti hu?
mai waapas jaana chahti hu,apne pati ke ghar.
par maar-peet se aur bure bartaav se darti hun.
plz help.......
AFROZ ANJUM KHAN
BILASPUR C.G.
AFROZANJUMKHAN@GMAIL.COM
namste madam ..mujhe meri wife or uske ghar wale bhout pareshan kiye huee hai..meri wife pahele bhi case kar chuki hai.women cell delhi me meri 1 bachi bhi ha. meri wife 1 saal se apne father ke ghar rahe rahi hai.kyu ki meri wife ne susayit karne ki koshish ki thi jisme ki uski spin tut gayi thi humne uska pura ilaz katrvaya tha puri care ki thi fir uske ghar wale use apne ghar le gaye ye kahekar ki ab jab ye thik ho jayegi fir hum ise bejh denge.uske jane ke baad mai use call karta raha usne mujhse kaha ki ab mai tumhare sath tumhare saher me nahi rahungi.fir maine use call karna band kar di.lekin mann nahi mana maine fir use call karne ki koshish ki to uske ghar walo ne baat karvana se mana kar diya.uske ghar wale kuch gunde type ke hai mujhe dhamki dete rahte hai ki agar tu delhi aaya to tujhe kisi case me fansva denge.ab vo sab kahe rahe hai ki tu delji aaja wahi tu flat lele jo ki 20 lakh ka hai.agar tu nahi aaya hum case kardenge.madam mai or mere mata pita bhout pareshan hai.plz mada help me..
ReplyDeletemadam mera e mail adderss hai pankajrajput23@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteRespected Madam,
ReplyDeleteI am happy to see the disputes among the family members are getting solved with the help of you & your program, but i would like to know more about that will you help only those people who have disputes in their family life, if you read mumbai mirror dated 05/09/2009 page 13, their is a article of a 4 month baby who is suffering from a bad disease, plz read that and try to help that poor family also. They require Rs 75000 for the operation, since i have only 5000 rs in my account, i can do this only, so please try to help this family also.
neha
ReplyDeletehello mam
i am a student of economics honors 1st year......and i must say that u r my idol..........ur show rocks really i am a big fan of ur
Dear Madam
ReplyDeleteI need your urgent help to resolve a fatal issue pls send me ur mail and contact info so that i can participate and describe my problem.
Respected Madam ,
ReplyDeleteI want to meet you . and can't discuss matter here
HIIIIIIIIII MAM
ReplyDeletePLZ SEND ME ONLY A MAIL.I M VERY THANKFUL TO U FOR THIS PLZ.ACTUALLY I M UR GREAT FAN........
U R MY IDOL.I LIKE U VERY MUCH.MY ID IS bhawnadhawan52@yahoo.in plzzzzzzzzzzz
main aapka show roz dekhti hu.mujhe aap bhut pasand ho...aur plz apna yeh show kabhi band mat karna,,,,,,,,plzzzzzzz
thank u plzzz e mail kar dena......love u
plz take care urself
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
ReplyDeleterespected madam,i m a teacher & my husband is a struggling lawyer.we have a 2 yrs old daughter.ours was alove marriage.my husband doesnt earn much & i m managing all the work alone without any help from his side.he has lots of ego problem as he is dependent on me 4 everything.also he spents money on drinking n his friends.on this issue we have sertious fights frequently which is affecting my babay adversely.he remains calm if i give him enough money but fights if i dont.also he never speaks truth to me n tries to put me down in his parents eyes although they support me fully,as they say.how should i handle him?he is very emotional n we live away from his parents.plz suggest some solution if possible.i will b very greatfull 2 u.my id is kaushik.upasna@yahoo.in
ReplyDeletei m a jain guy, was in love with muslim girl since 5 years, b4 9 months v hv done court marrige, n made her cast change afidavite also, bt v hv not said anythng to our home, v vwere living like before n decided dat v vil declair it later on, bt nw suddenly her family is saying dat to marry sum1 else n she get emotional n ready 4 it, n said me dat i cant b with u n u please dont say any one dat v r married bt in my cast almost everyone knws about it, i dont want anythng bt if a guy has done like dis dan guy has done crime n he wil get punishment 4 dis so why girl is inocent, i just want dat she also get punishment 4 making my life mess. atlist she undstood dat she has made my life hell, i hope u wil gv me some solution, i dnt want to make dis an issue so please try dat its get solve out easily. i hv all the certificates n all the proofs. her family is still not knwing it. plz help me out, coz she has cheated me, she is pretend lyk she is doing for family bt actually d fact is she was carring on with sum1 else also n dat is prooved when i caught her red handed in cyber cafe when she was chating with dat guy n i read all masseges. i m not able to tolarate dis cheating hapend with me. This is my story i hope u wil give me correct justise. my email is niks22in@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteJay Hind Mem
ReplyDeleteThis is Aarohi...From Bhuj Kutch(Gujrat).me wese to ek student hu ab me I A S clear kar rahi hu...mem ek hi bat kehna chahti hu jis des me aurat ko ma ya devi keh ke pooja jata hai usi des me aaj bhi 21 vi sdi me bhi aurat pe atayachar hote hai kisi na kisi tarah se..aurat ko hi galat sabit kiya jata hai or strange chij ye hai ki Aurat ko galat sabit karnewali bhi ek Aurat hi hoti hai..or uspe jyada atyachar krnevali bhi
Aurat hi hoti hai..in sab ka karn kam padai ya to hmare purane riti rivaj or ravayate ki ek ldki ka matalab sadi,pati,bche,or sasural....ha ye hone chaie par unka matalab ye to nahi ki Aurat ko mat padao gar me bithao...ini sbhi ligo ki aaj aankh khul rahi hai ki ek Aurat hoke bhi aap is jagah pe ho...really is bat se unki aankhe khul jay ki ek Aurat chahe to kya kar skti hai.....personly me and femily and allso whole INDIA praud of U...Mem........Jay Hind...
Thanks & Regards
Aarohi
aarohi59@gmail.com
namaste mam, mera naam surinder kaur hai, meri
ReplyDeleteshaadi ko huye teen saal huye hai,mere husband saraa din office ki wajah se bahar rehte hai aur mere jeth aur jethani mujhe bahut pareshan karte hai,kya mujhe koi help mil sakti hai.
PLEASE HELP ME
mob-09899111383,
E MAIL-amrit@hi-tekgroup.com
Hello Mam,
ReplyDeleteThis is regarding to my housekeeper,who works for me, she is going through the daily torture of his husband, daily hitting, bad words, no money to met daily expenses and stuffs. Seeing your show at my home, she asked me to contact you, and on searching i found your blog, I feel its the best way i can contact you.Please let me know the best way she can come upfront.
Its really a great task you are heading on, and u really rock.. you are really my role model and i wish you good luck, health and happiness.
Thanks,
Isha
ishamahajan2002@gmail.com
Respected mam,
ReplyDeleteThis is Shilpi from New Delhi, i wanted to discuss the case i want to login against my Uncle(chachaji) for taking over the property on his name in year 1997 when my grandmother died. He cleverly took my grandmother to the court when she was in the state of being paralyzed & unable to see anything, Apart from this he has done forge signature of my dadiji in the bank & has withdrawn all money, jewelery & Fixed Deposits from there.
He has even done forge signatures on FD's which my dadiji kept on me & my sister's name & has withdrawn all the money from that as well.
As per me their was no will done by my dadiji on his name because as per my knowledge court needs signature of all family members including children to complete the will, wherein not even two of my buaji's & my father was their to sign that.So, as per me he has taken the property on his name or may be after that he has transferred the property on his wife's name who is actually behind all this game played by my uncle.
Tomorrow i am sending my father to D.D.A. office to get the copy of the property papers so that we will come to know about the current state of ownership on this property.
Their is much more that i wanted to tell you about this case & i need your honorable suggestion on this. that is why i want to login a case in AAP KI KACHEHRI against my uncle, so that i can tell everything about this & have your suggestion how to go ahead.
Waiting to hear from you soon......
And appreciate the great work done by you through "AAP KI KACHEHRI"
Thanks & Regards,
Shilpi Kakkar
(C): - 9873377258
E-mail: - shilpi.kakkar2205@gmail.com
Dear Dr Kiran,
ReplyDeleteYour show is wonderful.I never miss that, it's eye opener!
You look so sweet and cute in your show when you smile and when you get irritated at people. Your smile is killing.
Dr Kiran, is there any time of the day when you meet people? I will be highly obliged if in my life I could meet you once.
Bindu
Dear madam,
ReplyDeleteI remember when I was a child i read in my general knowledge book, about, first indian lady IPS officer- Kiran Bedi.. I was in year 7 at that time.. ever since then I have known you.. thourgh media.. through the good work you ve done and always been in news.. and the books you ve written... i have considered you as my idol... bold and beautiful... I respect women who have reached on top as now when I have grown up I realised how difficult is it to first fight for your identity.. fight for what you want... n overcoming that n reaching on top and achieving something great in life is worth admiring and aapreciating.. my sister bindu, who's posted a comment here sent me this link of your blog, n I was so pleased to know that there's a channel open to communicate with you.... your show has been a superhit... there were so many things which we didnt know or never bothered to know that what all provisions law has for women, n being educated i feel ashamed that we still were so illiterate about it. thanks to your show that we kno a lot about it...
Keep up the good work...
your follower,
your fan,
Aditi Sharma
Hello Madam,
ReplyDeleteI am Savitri Sharma,Working as school teacher in Bhilwara.My son Ram,got married with Shilpa Sharma on 24th April
2008.Shilpa is daughter of a RAS officer in Jaipur.Shilpa was with me only for 12 days in Bhilwara then She left for newyork
to live with my son.She kept fighting with him and aborted her own baby also withing 4 month of marriage and came back to Jaipur.We called her and her father a lot but they never talked to us in last 1 year.He father is very egoistic man and he has good influence in Jaipur.He has filed 498A and DV against me,my son and my daughter.Her father simply want to spoil our life and don`t want to negotiate on any term.Her father keep filing different-different false cases and taking advantage of
our loose leagl system to satisfy his ego.He has made our life miserable in last 1 year.I desperately need your help to get
rid of this trouble.
RESPECTED MADAM,
ReplyDeleteOUR FAMILLY HAS BEEN IN GREAT TROUBLE DUE TO INJUSTICE OF MY BROTHER-IN-LOW.WE LIKE TO BRING THE CASE IN " AAP KI KACHEHRI" FOR THE JUSTICE. PLEASE HELP US TO PARTICIPATE IN THE PROGRAMME.
MR. RAJESH
EMAIL- rahelbute@yahoo.co.in
PHONE 0129-4120132
Dear Mam,
ReplyDeleteI want to share a big matter of fraud happened with us by SBI officials & some other persons. They have illegally & fraudently operated our locker in the bank & grabbed all our ornaments from it. We have all docoments concerning illegal operation of our locker. We did complaint in Police but because of pol. pressure we get no response. So now we are helpless & need the help of higher athourity for justice.So please help us.
Waiting for your response.
Aarti> mb. no:9988774677.
Email: aarti.grover7@gmail.com
Thursday, September 3, 2009
ReplyDeleteVandematerm
S.B.I.-----STATE BANK OF INDIA---U CAN RIGHTLY CALLS THIS BANK ---F.B.I.--MEANS--FRAUD BANK OF INDIA.
All people save money or keep their imp.&valuable things under this name as believing this is a responsible bank & I ailso do the same.But then I came to know that this is Fraud Bank when my joint locker in this bank operated by a person not included in that joint list. THIS means anybody can operate ur locker with keys ,other things does not matter. any person he or she can operate ur locker by signing it.BANK IS NOT RESPONSIBLE 4 THAT.IS IT NOT ITS RESPONSIBILITY,only its employees r responsible if so then who will take the responsibility of our loss?
TELL ME WHO IS RESPONSIBLE 4 MY LOSS.
IF SOMEHOW UR LOCKER'S KEYS R STOLEN OR LOST , ANYBODY CAN OPERATE UR LOCKER.THIS IS A RULE OF THIS FRAUD BANK AND IT IS NOT RESPONSIBLE ALL 4 UR LOCKER NEIGHTER COMPENSATE U AT ALL.
respected madam im rinki 4m yamunanagar .meri problem hai meri bua saas aur uske ladke ne meri jwellry jo lagbhag 120 gm gold aur silver kari 500 gm hai maine unhe kisi problem k chalte safe rakhne ke liye de the problem khatam hone ke baad jab mai apni jwellry mangne gai to unhone kaha ki hume paiso ki jarurat the isliye une girvi rakh diya vo ek mahine baad milegi .but jab maine jor diya to kehne lage ki tumhare pati k sath humara len den hai vo paisa dega to hum tumhare jwellrey vapis kr denge .humari financial condition theek nahi hai buisness k loss k chalte hum paisa nai d pa rahe .vaise bhi usne ye paisa 10% monthly intrest banaya hua ahi jo unlegalhai uske pass paiso k len den karne ki koi legal authority ya koi right nai hai, aurhum 235000 ka 485000 d chuke ha pir bi vo laalch kr rahe hai plz mam isme humari help kare.thanks
ReplyDeleterinki w/o neeraj
yamunanagar haryana
nirajynr@gmail.com
09896504707
Hello Kiran Mam
ReplyDeleteYou are donging great job..............
Kamna
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ReplyDeleteHello Madam,
ReplyDeleteMy name is jameeluddin.I am a Electrical Engineer & a central government employee. I am a unmarried 26 year boy.In my home my mother & eleder sister always ur program 'AAP KI KECHERI'. I too watched the show if time permits. Its a wonderful show and from this show i can understand the problems which comes in married life. Thank u for ur all efforts to solve the problems of common people. From ur blog i came to know that a common people know nothing of laws. लोगो को अपने हक़ के बारे में कुछ नहीं मालूम mam. school में legal पढाई होना जरुरी है
मैं आपना mail ID देना तो भूल ही गया
ReplyDeletejameelsheik@gmail.com
hi kiran ji, i am a software engineer, main ek ladki se pyar karta hoon wo bhi mujhe pyar karti hai wa shadi bhi karna chahti hai but problem ek hai ki us ladki ke chote jija ka chota bhai hai jo us ladki ke sath pahle badtamiji bhi kar chuka hai but ghar walon ki beizzati ke dar se bat rafa dafa ho gayi no police complain, lekin usne ye damki di thi ki agar ladki ki shadi hogi to wo nahi hone dega aur mauka milega to use utwa loonga, wo ladki police me complain se darti hai, maine bhi bola lekin phir bhi wo nahi maan rahi but usse parivar ka dar wa badnami ka dar sata raha hai aur wo galat kadam utana chahti hai but maine use rok rakha hai please koi salah de deegiye ya protection ke liye ray deegiye ya aapse contact kar sakein wa aise ladko se samaj ko chutkara dila sakein wo ladka badtamij type ka hai aur kayee bar pit bhi chuka hai lekin baaj nahi aata please batayiye kya kiya jaye mera email id : awadheshmca2005@gmail.com ya main apse mil sakta hoon to please tell me ya phone per bat kar sakta hoon to no provide kara deejiye.
ReplyDeleteRespected Madam,
ReplyDeleteMyself Abin Chacko. I am currently studying in 4th year Chemical Engg, at the Government Engg. College, Valsad, Gujarat. I and my wife Sarita Bhati came in acquaintance 4 years back. We were friends for a period of 2 years and then in September 2007 we fell in love. Around August 2008 she started pressurizing me for marriage. I wanted to do the same but at the end of my education. As her parents started searching for a boy we decided to get married. Sarita belongs to the gurjar community of u.p. and I am a Syrian orthodox keralite chrisitian. I contacted a solicitor and he gave us advice to go for marriage under the special marriage act. On 01/01/09 we put up our notice no 1/09 at the baroda registrar office. On 07/02/09 we got married in presence of three witnesses. All the above was without the knowledge and consent of either of our parents. We decided to stay at our respective homes for the time being. During march she asked me to start our own life. So on 25th march 2009 I brought her and we got an affidavit stating that she had come under her own wish. The copies of which were sent to both our parents and to the police station of both our places. That night we stayed at my friends place and the following morning we called up both our parents to inform them. Then we went to the house we had hired. On 26th my parents fearing for my safety went to her parents house in gandhinagar and after mutual talks consented to have a formal ceremony after the completion of our education and asked us to cme back to our respective houses to avoid public humiliation. When I reached gandhinagar her father met us and said that if he wanted he could even had killed me. Thereafter on 28th they called me to their house and started pleading for divorce to which I didn’t agree. This has been going on for the past months. Sarita stood up her ground for some time but in may she called me to take her back pleading that she may buckle up under the pressure. I consulted my father who adviced me to complete my education and then go for her. On july 30th Sarita called me to say that she wanted divorce the reason for which is that they belong to the gurjar community and if she gets married elsewhere it causes trouble to her parents. I did not agree. On 22nd September 2009 they have sent me a legal notice stating that I got her forcibly married with me and that after taking her home me and my parents allegedly abused her, harassed her and even threatened to kill her and her family demanding dowry. The notable fact over here is neither have my parents met her more than once which was at the valsad railway station on pretext of her being my friend and not even my father has accepted dowry at his time. They have further said in the notice that I should be liable to pay her Rs.10000 monthly allowance. They have stated why me and my parents should not be procecuted under the IPC and not even stated the purpose of the notice. My father received the registered on 29th . Madam the laws of this country are to uphold justice not deny it. I have no complaints but I just want to save my marriage as its no childs play for me. I have to respond to the notice within 7 days. As I am studying right now and I don’t have enough finances to hire a solicitor I am very depressed not knowing what to do. Meanwhile my parents contacted her family and they said that only on grounds of divorce are they ready to drop any charges. I feel that the IPC is here used wrongly to uphold ones personal agenda. And is marrying outside the caste such a wrongdoing then there should have been no provisions in the law for such kind of marriage. Please Madam tell me what to do. I have just held on till now to save my marriage and want to do anything possible to save it. Humbly waiting for you kind advice into the matter. You Madam know the laws of the IPC better than us common people so please to advice me what to do at the earliest.
Your sincerely,
Abin Chacko.
pls do contact me on my mail id which is:
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ReplyDeleteHello ma'am..this is pallavi,ma'am i ve faced a lot many problems at my home..my mom has sufferred alot..because of ths joint family thing..ma'am v can easily get a boundary in between n live seperately but the problem is i don't have my father's support..don't know why he can't see all the sufferings of my mom..ma'am..now i m 23..and still can't do any thning openly because of no support from my father..ma'am i just want to give a peaceful life to my mother who has been suffering all this since 25 years..ma'am plzzzz help..i really need that!!
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madam its abin here. please do help me out. i understand you have a busy schedule. but please do take out some of your precious time for me.
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ReplyDeleteI feel so proud on you,you are the true symbole of women power,keep it up.....all the best...You are the NATION'S PRIDE
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ReplyDeleteIts a great job you are doing and we hardly miss any episode of "Aap Ki Kacheri". Just wanted to know who are the NGO organisations behind this show? We would like to make some contribution for such NGOs.
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ReplyDeletemaine jab se aap ki kacheri dekha hai mai aap ki bhot badi fan ban gai hu. i love you lot madam......mai roj net par apke bare mai padti hu or apki photos download karti hu..... mai bhi aap ki tarah banna chahti hu........
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Namaste Kiranji,
ReplyDeleteI live in US aur jab se apka karyakram AAPKI KACHEHARI shuru huya hai tab se main dekhti hoon.aapne ye samaj sudarane ka beda jo otthaya hai I wish aap jaisi himmaat aur devotion mujhe bhi mile.
Maine dekha hai ki jyadatar mamle jo apki kachahari main laye jaate hai wo neeche tapke ke logo ke hote hai but the case have lot of similarities and related to what happens in the upper class of the scty and i don't understand y female is going thru all the hell. aur upper class ke hone ki wajah se wo koi bhi step lene ke ya to sharmate hai ya ghabrate hai. aise main agar stri chahe to bhi apne liye nyay nahi maangati hai. mujhe ek aurat hone ke bawjood ye samajh mein nahi aata hai ki hum aurate apne haque ke liye apni awaz oothane ke liye itna kyon sochte hai..jabki adami ek chhoti si baat bhi oonke expectation ke hisab se nahi hoti hai to ya to apni awaz othata hai ya phir haath.
at times even i have felt that i don't raise my voice for my own sake and ignore and after years of marriage when we realise it, it is too late to react because by that time u have kids and other social baggages.
i think hamari sabse pehli problem hai ki shadi ke hum ladkiyon ko sikhaya jaat hai ki jo pati kahe wo suno, oonki seva karo, unka dhyan rakho...without realising our own individuality... sab kuch karo but not at the cost of ignoring ur own individuality because after years of ur marriage u realise that u have nothing left for urself. agar aapke pati achche likale to naseeb nahi to zindagi gayee.
in brief, that all this is prevailed in the all parts of the scty. i hope more educated people come forward including me to support the growth for society.
aapke karya mein apko hamari shubh kamnyein
bhagwan appko lambi umra aur achcha swasth de.
pranam
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ReplyDeleteI am great fan of you & never miss a single episode of AKK,Mam,in one episode you mentioned something about mother's maintaince can you give me detail information about mother maintainance as my brothers are really troubling my mother.I have two brothers & my father is no more,my brothers doesnt want to keep my mother with them.What action I can take againest them.About me I am married & settled in Dubai,
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ReplyDeleteplease help me.m in trouble n feeling alone.
If a grl got pregnant n boy refuse to accept n marry her. grl love him alot n dont wnt to abort the child.wat legal rights the grls has?is boy legally bound to marry her?wat is the path or solution in front of grl,now?Please reply me as soon as possible. n also give the address of rashriya mahila aayog who can help me in this matter.
Hi Ma'am,
ReplyDeleteplease help me.m in trouble n feeling alone.meri shadi 22 feb. 2005 main hui thi.tabhi se meri wife ne mujhe aur mere parivar ko pareshan kar rakha hai .abhi tak to hum bardasht kar rahe they par ab usne (CAW) cell main hamare against dowry case file kar rakha hai .aur roz - roz uske bhai aur mama ka phone aata hai aur mujhe jaan se maarne ki dhamki dete hai.aur idhar meri wife dhamki deti hai ki mai suicide kar lungi aur poori family ko jail bhijwa dungi.meri wife ka sk mama delhi police mai const. hai woh kehta hai ki mai waha akar sab ko goli maar dega.mai ek institute chalata hu .mari wife mere inst.main akar students ke sath sath misbehave karti hai,jis se mere students bhi kam ho gaye hai.
meri wife mujhe bina bataye sara din ghar se gayab rehti hai aur pata nahi kis -kis ke ph. aate hai jab main poochta hun to kehti hai tum koun hote ho poochhne wale meri marji mai kahi bhi jaun.
meri wife ke aur uske bhai,mama ke is behaviour se mai aur mere ghar wale 24hrs.darr ke mahol mai ji rahe hai.
so mam i request yuo to look into the matter seriously and suggest me what to do. i`ll be very greatfull to yuo because yuo are my last hope.
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ReplyDeleteRespected Madam,
ReplyDeleteAm honoured to reach you this way.
It was by accident that I hit ur AKK and got stuck. From then on, I make it a point not to miss the programme. Thanks to Tata Sky, I cud set a reminder to watch it!
I must say that the programme makes me lose myself into it. Listening to the disputes I used to wonder how u were going to solve them. But, madam, u knw u got an unmatchable ability of identifying the exact problem and providing the perfect solution. And whn I watch the disputes being resolved tears automatically well up in my eyes.
Madam, you certainly are a Bharat Ratna!
Also, the entire programme is so perfect in every technical respect too. Pl do convey my kudos to the tech guys.
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Subject: application for getting the registry copy of a house no. B-11/140 in front of kalu ram dharamshala , samrala.On the basis of registry ,Municipal Council Samrala, has registered the ownership on the name of Banarsi Das.
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Municipal Council Samrala has registered the ownership on the name of Banarsi Das S/o Sh. Gokal Chand. I have requested lot of times for getting the ownership proof but municipal Council Samrala has not replied my queries due to lack of ownership proof. Please provide me ownership proof for above mentioned house. I hope you will look in to this matter seriously.
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Yours Sincerely,
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का रहेने वाला हुं । मेने २००२ मे एक अख्बार मे कला देखि फ़िर मेने भि शात शाल कोशिस कि ओर सुइ जो कप्डे शिने के काम आति हे ऊस सुइ के शुराख मे जहा धागा पिरोते हें व्हां मेंने त्रिरंगा झंडा बनाया हे सुइ का साइज एक इंच चार पोईंट हे
ये आम आंखो से नहीं दिखता इस कला का मोल मुजे क्या मिलेगा आज मे इंशाफ़ मांग्ता हुं । पत्ररकार मेरि इस खबर को लासट मे छापते हें लोग म्जाक उडाते हें
पर मे ये शोचता था ये कला करोडो मे बिकति जसे विलार्ड महोदय कि कला आज भि बिक रहि हे।
मेरा कोइ सप्ना नहिं था पर ये काम मुज्से हुआ तो मुजे लगा अब कोइ मेरि आवाज सुनेगा सरकार भि मुजे संमानित करेगि तो मे सरकार को यहि कहेता के सडको पे भिख मानग्ते बच्चे सडको पे मरते गरिब । इज्त छुपने कि कोशिस मे फ़टै हुए तंन पे क्प्डे ।
अप्ने परिवार को दो व्क्त कि रोटी देने के लिय ईज्त बेच्ति बहंने। भिख मांग्ते ब्जुर्ग हाथ।
अमिरो के वाहनो के सिंगार के लिये मरते स्ड्को पे बच्चे । इज्त किशि गरिब कि हि किओ उतारि जाति हे कोइ पुलिस वाला कोइ लाचार को हि किओ मारता हे।
हर आम आदमि छोटे मोटे चोर को हि किओ मारते हे ।किओ दो रोटि से जिआदा लोग खाते हे
मेरा देस आज भि भुखा हे ।तन पे प्लु आज भि फ़्टा हे ।
क्या मेरा भारत आज इतना पढा लिखा होगया किआ उस्का स्पुत आज उसकि इज्त के लिय अप्ने प्राणो कि आहुदि देता हे किआ आज भि याह इमानदार बेटा इज्त कि रोटि खिला पाता हे। किआ आज भि याहा का हर घर अप्ने प्रिवार को अप्ना देस स्म्ज्ता हे।
किआ आज के नेता राजा बन के अपनि प्र्जा के लिय भुका रेहेजता हे ।
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किआ आज भि हमे सर्म आति हे ।
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Everytime I watch ur program I secretly wish that u were my sister or some member in my family. I am certainly lucky that I am living in your times. I must thank god that He made you born in this spiritual India. Your service is in itself a meditation. Keep going, Didi! U r making India very proud! Please never stop this program!
Hi mam.i am Danish,im 13years old.I saw your programme aapkikachehri on star utsav.I have problem that my mom not loves our family. in my faimly there is my younger brother(age8),my father and me.my mom lives in her mayakea without any reason about 4years.she has government job and her monthly earning is Rs.20,000.I and my brothere lives with my father.my father send us schools.my father is small farmer.my father make food for us.but my mom has no any care of us. please give me a contact detail of your office.im read in standared 8th.Hope you replay me advise soon.my mail id is Danishraza.sweet@gmail.com Please help me.Thanks....
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Dear Mrs Bedi,
ReplyDelete1. My name is Priyanka Saxena, I am married to an army officer and we are residing at delhi.
2. I am approaching you for help with respect to my domestic help who probably needs some legal help to overcome her marital discord. Brief details of the case are given as under:-
(a) She was married around 15 yrs back but is living separated from her husband who often visits her
(b) They presently have two children, a daughter aged about 13 yrs who is mentally retarded and the second is 1 month old.
(c) The husband is not bothered about how the children would be brought up and whenever she goes to his place at Haridwar, the husband and the in-laws harass and discourage her to live there and ultimately she is forced to leave.
(d) The husband does not earn anything as per her version.
3. I wanted to know the options available for poor woman who is daily striving to make ends meet.
Thanking You,
Priyanka Saxena
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nameste madam mai ek widow hu meri shadi ke ek saal baad mere pati ki road accident me death ho gayi.mere pass ek bhi child nahi hai. mere father-in law or mother-in-law ki bhi ten years pahle ho gayi hai. mere pati ke death ke abhi two months bhi nahi hua tha ki meri five sister-in-law ne mere pati ke naam se jo makan tha use divide kar li.uske baad unlogo ne mere puri family per criminal casw kar di go hum logo ko pata chalne tak dismissed ho gaya tha. mere pati ke makan ka batwara mere false affidavit de kar batwara kar liya gaya uske baad inlogo ne title suit dayar kiya. madam mai ye janna chati hu ki meri nanad ki shadi ke krib 20 sal baad us property me kya share ho ga.mere ko pata chala hai ki agar shaddi ko 12 sal ho jane par kis dhara ke that kya share ho. Iski jankari ke liya mai madam ki sada shukar juzar rahugi.Thank you.9472592048
ReplyDeleteMadam ji meri khani kuch ajeeb hi tarah ki hai kyoki main ek aase ladki se pyar karta hu jo mere hi gaon ki hai. Hamare beech yeh pyar ka rishta 4 saal purana hai. Sab kuch theek chal raha tha ki achanak Arzoo (jisse main pyar karta hu) ka rishta aaya aur maine us rishte ko tudwa diya aur uske baad hum dono ne Arya samaj Mandir, jamuna bazaar, Delhi main shadi kar le lekin pata nahi kaise arzoo ke family ko hamari shadi ke bare main pata chal gaya aur unhone arzoo ko mujhse door bhej diya. Madam ji maine apne wife ko bahut talash kiya lekin wo mujhe nahi mile. Maine police complaint karne ke bare main bhi soocha lekin complaint karne ke liye mere pass shadi ke paper nahi the kyoki wo paper bhi meri wife ke pass hi the. Madam ji mere father ko bhi yeh shadi manjoor nahi hai kyoki main gaon ki sabse rich family se hu aur apne father ke main ek hi ladka hu lekin meri wife bahut hi simple family se hai. Madam main apna ghar aur gaon sab kuch chood aaya hu kyoki waha mere koi nahi hai. Mere father ne mujhe 2 months pehle ghar se nikal diya to main aur kya karta. Madam main ek cricketer hu aur main delhi main ek club ki taraf se cricket khel raha hu aur isse se ab mera gujara hota hai. Madam ji mujhe kuch nahi chahiye na to apne father ki property aur na hi arzoo ke gharwalo se koi cheez. Mujhe sirf apne wife chahiye. Main manta hu ki hamare samaj main ek gaon main shadi nahi hote aur hamara samaj esse ek gunah manta hai lekin hum dono ek doosre ke bina nahi je sakte to aur kya karte. Madam ji mujhe daar hai ki kahi meri wife ki family walo ne doosri shadi na kar de ho ya karne walo ho. Agar aisa hua to main pure gaon ko barbaad kar donga. Kyoki mujhe pata hai ke meri arzoo bahut emotional hai aur usse uske gharwale emotionally blackmail karke uske shadi kahi aur karwa sakte hai. Madam ji main abhi tak sirf isley kuch nahi kar raha hu kyoki mujhe lagta hai ki meri wife mere paas jaroor aayegi. Aapne bahut cases solve kiye hai to please mera bhi case solve kar dijye apko uparwale ka wasta kyoki madam ji iss time main bahut ekala hu mere saath koi nahi hai. Madam ji main arzoo ke saath jina chahta hu isley maine uske gharwalo ko kuch bhi nahi kaha aur chup chap gaon chood kar chala aaya lekin agar meri arzoo ke saath kuch bhi hua to main uske saare gharwalo ko gaan se marker khud ko goli maar lunga. Kyoki agar apne meri help nahi ki to isske alawa mere paas koi aur rasta nahi hai. Main apne arzoo ko kise aur ke saath nahi dekh sakta. Madam ji please meri wife ko mujhe dilva dijye. please
ReplyDeleteHimanshu Sharma
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Respected Mrs Bedi,
ReplyDeleteI am writing to you for an honest advice regarding my mother & her daughter-in-law issues. I am the eldest daughter married & living in UK.I have my elderly father 75yrs,mother aged 72,younger sister 33 (single) and my elder brother who is married and lives with his wife & son in a joint family in 1Rk flat in Bombay.
My SIL has issues from the time she has been married (8yrs) and has caused lots of pain to them.She ill-treats all the members & especially abuses my mom for every word she speaks.I can't explain how frustrated I get being so far away and cant help them to find out what exactly her problem is towards my family members especially my mom.
My mother is a loving,forgiving and caring wife & mother,she has brought us up in discipline & loving care when our dad was abroad.We always had a good name in the society & everybody knew our character.My mom has always forgived her as she is a devotee of Jesus & believes what the bible says but my SIL alongwith her family members try to create problems.My dad just dont say a word as you know as per the Indian law the DIL have got more rights & can sue them for any silly reason.Taking this into consideration she infact had gone to that extent of puting a false blame on them & getting them summond by the police & were given warnings.She did not even spare her husband which the world can tell how caring and considerate my brother is. He is so homely does not smoke or drink just the innocent boy in our family and that she is taking advantage of it. Its quite heartbreaking when I see his state of mind he is totally shattered cos if he corrects her she give no damn to him and treats him like she would treat any person on the earth.
From her family point of view she was not brought up by her mom she left her kids & was working abroad & her dad was drinking day & night.Her elder sisters took care of her and she respects them so much that what ever they say she acts on that especially her sister who is few years elder to her.Even their inlaws complain of her,so you can think for yourself what type of family members they can be.I tried to speak to her and ask her why is she reacting to this but no vain.My mom though being this age is doing all the house work and she gives lame excuses of not being well to help in the house but she makes all the food for her 8 year old son. Her son does not spare her says rude words and when she corrects him he turns round and says i have learnt it from you.No one can correct him, if my parents do she does not like so my parents have stopped doing it.He just does not allow them to watch tv and rules my parents when to watch or do things in the house.The flat where they live is in my mothers name and my SIL very well knows it & does not want to go out of the house.once she had gone out of the house on her own when she took them to the police station & then my brother started to live with her in a rented house as he loves his son very much no doubt what she did to our family and we had no problem.Once their tenancy licence got expired my brother asked my mom if he could live in the house till he gets a rented house and as my mother is soft hearted and loves her son to bits agreed but this his wife too advantage and brought all her belongings and started living now she is not ready to live with her husband and son seperately as there is no peace in the house.There are lots of stuff which I have not mentioned but reading this can you please advice me on what can be done to bring peace to this family and also is there any legal advice on the house basis. Which means if the flat belongs to my mom can my mother just do what she wants to the flat without giving any explanation to anyone & my SIL dont crave for the house.My husband is worried that I am getting worked up because of my parents & he too need to know if there is any solution.PLEASE HELP.Thanking you,Bernadine
Respected Kiran Didi,
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Now there is a f riend of mine who stays in Punjab married 6 years back and she has 2 children but her husband is not atall working and she is having a joint family now she is frustated because the 2 kids are small she told her husband that if you are interestes in some other work we will bot hpay 1/2 1/2 money and open a new buisness he got ready but inlaws are not ready to give the amount. she herself is managing with a play group now her husband is telling if you donot need me i will leave you but pay me 1/2 the money of the flat in which we are staying and from where wil she get the money so kindly let me know that if you have any sanstha in punjab because she will not be able to come over here. and one more thing she has not disclosed any of the matter with her parents because she thinksshe will mange on her own.
Dear Madam,
ReplyDeleteI am writing to you for advice regarding my Grand Mother In-Law. Her late husband had left her with a house in Delhi and had written a letter addressed to the Society Office stating the same. This letter was just a hand written letter which was acknowledged by Society Office. Also he had mentioned that after his wife two of his son's would be entitled to claim the house. Though the family actually consists of three brothers and two sisters. My Grand Father in-Law had stated in his letter that after him his wife and after her only two off his son’s have the right to claim the flat.
Now one of the two sons who can claim the house is staying in the flat and the other son who too has the right to claim the property is staying in a government apartment along with his mother. This son is reaching his retirement age in the next 1.5 yr ++ and would like to buy a flat for himself where he can keep his mother along with him. Grand Mother wants to sell the flat and divide equally the money from the sale between the son as per the say of her Late husband. But the son staying in the flat is not willing to do so and says that he will not sell the flat but he will give the money for the same to the other brother that to in installments We are fine with that but the value of the property quoted by his is not expectable. Madam this son work for a private organization at a very respectable post therefore has no financial issue.
But he fails to 1st understand and the will of his mother. 2nd he fails to understand that his brother will have to vacate the flat soon on retirement need to buy a property for himself.
Please Advice.
Rohit
mitrarohit@hotmail.com
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ReplyDeletemedam mere pas sab puruf he ke mere mabap ke sade char tola dagine bi leke gaye he magar me un bombay walo ke samne har gaya hu meri jo sarkari loyer he vo high court ki salini patil he unka cellno.o9930189665 he par pata nahi vo bi muje fasane ke liye apne tarikese javab deti he medam me sach ko jayada aehimiyat dene wala insan hu me to court ko yaha tak bol ta hu ki sach janna he touse mere bache ki dadkan par hat rakh kar pucho ke mere sath mere gar me kay hu th .jo ek nambar ki juthi orat ho to kya use gar lana sahi hoga muje sari mumbai se javab chahiye kya medam schai sif stori me hi rah gai he ya fir satya ka kabhi jaay bi hota he help mi medam nahi to ye lo muje mumbai doda doda kar mere jan le legekoi to meri help karo plssssssssss 919825404160
ReplyDeletemedame me mere mabap koto ye keh chuka tha ki muje to ye ladki ke sath hi jindagi bitani he medam me bilkul akela hogaya hu mere khane se lekar har tarah ki taklif jel raha hu.or akele rehte hu fir bhi vo log mere mabap ko heran karne ko bolte he medam meri help kigiye varna me sach ka mukabla nahi kar saka kar aatmahatya nahi kar bethu? mere jese kai ko aasi orate heran kar rahi hogi.or aise orat ki vajah se sara samaj badnam hota he.help me abi aapko meri story batate hi meri akho ke samne sab kuch najar aane lagta he or me soch tu ki us jagde me meri koi bhul thi.mere mabap ko jab mene apni aatmahatya kar ne ki bat karta hu to vobolte he unladki valo kaya jayega beta to hamara jayega? mere mabap garib he apni penson se gujara karte he mere mabap mere liye kuch nahi kar sakte he vo lachar he
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ReplyDeleteDear Mrs. Kiran Bedi.
ReplyDeleteI & my wife are artists. We both are Senior Citizens.
For the last more than one year, I & my family are suffering from the abuse, threats of physical violence, criminal act of demolition & property grab by criminally altering purchase deed clauses by a property grabber neighbor, Mohit Chaudhary, who is a practicing lawyer & a son of Rtd. Police. Lawyers help lawyers. Police helps lawyer/police, even if, he is caught red handed by three Police Officers on the orders of an ACP. These officers did not detain the property grabber, they detained the labour engaged by the property grabber. The FIR was diluted. His false bail petition arguments were not contested by the Police. Property Grabber & his wife got easy bail. Property grabber did not learn any lesson. He started abusing with words like, ‘O’Budde, ye jota dikhta hai, sar par etne parein ge, ki ek bal nain rahe ga’. Now with the help of, lawyer help lawyer, the property grabber got his criminality of demolition removed in the High Court by involving MCD. He did not think of MCD before 11.11.2009, when, he engaged the labour & started demolishing, when, he was caught red handed by the Police.
I have now realized, at this late age that there is no ‘Rule of Law’ in India & that the governance & law enforcement agencies in India are not result achieving institutions. The implementing ends of these agencies help the aggressor rather than save the victim.
I have approached everybody, Lt. Governor, The Chief Minister, Senior Citizen Protection Cell, Human Rights Commission, Police RTI (who are not even admitting that I submitted my RTI application on 3.2.2010 after paying Rs.10/- on 3.2.2009, even after seeing their stamped, dated & signed RTI receipt)
Recently, I have learnt that the property grabber & his father have a criminal property grabbing history in Mathura involving ‘Nepal Hotel, named after his grand father.
What should, I do to save myself, my family & my home, at this age. Please respond. If possible help. I can come & meet you, if you want me to explain further. My e-mail is My mobile: 09899228376.
About me you can see at: http://www.whohub.com/ved, http://www.vednayar.com, http://www.vednayar.info
Mera naam Anupama hai.01-05-2005 ko maine pani pasand ke ladke ke sath arrange marrige ki aj meri ek 4 saal ki beti hai. or mere pati mujhse alag ho gaye hai pishle 3 saal se main unse baat karne ki koshish kar rahi hu per wo musjse koi bhi rishta nahi rakhna chatein hai. 27-11-2007 ko mere pati ne mujhe ghar se nikal diya tha aj main apni mummy ke ghar mein rahe rahi hu or nokri karti jise apna or apni beti ki padai ka kharch nikarl pati hu mere pati meri koi madad nahi karte hai. Or jab bhi may unse baat karne ki koshish karti hu to mujhe mar dalne ki dhamki dete hai or gandi gandi galia dete hai maine unki police mein bhi complent kar di per kuch asar nahi hua hai aj to wo itna pareshan karte hai ki mere office ke logo ke pass phone karke mere liye gandi baatein bhi boltein hain.meri love marrige thi shaadi ke baad mere papa se dimands bhi kartein jise mere ghar wale pura bhi kardetein the ki ladki ka ghar basa rahe. jab main unke saath rehti thi to mujhe roj marte bhi the or mere beti ke liye kuch bhi nahi karte sara expnence mere mummy papa hi karte. meri mother in low ne gadi dilane ke liye kaha tha to mere papa ne mere pati ko bike kharidne ke liye cash de diya. magar uske bad bhi ye nahi sudhre baad me pata chale ki inka ek marride women ke saath afair bhi hai jo hamare ghar se 2-3 makan chod kar rehti hai. ajj main inse bahut dukhi hu pichle 2 saal se nukri karke jo kamya hai us se apni beti ko pada likha rahi hu ap please meri madad kare.mere pati ne newspapaer mein ye likhwa diya hia ki unke father ne unhe bedakhal kar diya hai is se to main or lachar ho gayi hu.please meri madad kare. jab bhi ghar ane ke liye phone karti hu to daratein dhamkartein hai or boltein hai ki agar ghar a gai to tujhe kiraye ke makan mein rakhunga or tere ghar se koi bhi milne aa gaya to jan se mardalunga. cash ki dimand kare hai merei sister in law bhi meri koi madad nahi karti ulta mere pati ko hi saport karti hai or mujhe bahut gandi gandi patein bolti hai. please please meri madad kare meri beti or mai roje pray kartein hai ki bhagwan hamari madad kre please safe our life mam please safe my family.
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Still waiting for your reply mam please safe our life please sapport us.
Dear Kiran Mam,
ReplyDeleteWe need ur help and support.Actually i want to meet you personally regarding to my brother murder case. I tried contact to you by mail but can't able to reach you. aashugpanwar@yahoo.com this si my mail id. and my number is 9990448063 and my father number is 9540119603.
Waiting for your quick response.
Thanks & Regards
Aarti
Madam ji,
ReplyDeleteme delhi me rehata hu mera chhota bhai aur uski wife hum logo ko bahut
pareshan karte hai
jaise ki ek din uski wife ne mitti ka tail apne uper chhidakkar pco
per jakar police ko 100 no per phone karke bulana,aur hamari pori
family ka jhoota naam darz karwana maar peet ki shikayat lagana,kabhi
dhahej ka cash lagana kabhi kuchh kabhi kuchh hum log tang aa chuke
hai ladki aur uski family se aur kabhi lach rupee mangte hai hum kya
kare, rehane ke liye un dono ko alag se ek room bhi de rakhkha hai
usme bijli- paani yuj
karte hai. unka bill mangne per dada giri dikhana gaali galoch karna
yeh 1 saal se aise hi chal raha hai mera chhota bhai
kahi baar sharab ke nashe me father ke hath per bilet bhi maar cuhka
hai aur is baar to un logo ne had hi kar di hai court me jakar hum
logo per case kar diya hai u/s 125 crpc case darj huaa hai, jab ki wo
apne husband ke saath rehati hai hum log bada pareshan hai hame koi
upaye bataye hum log kya kare ye arji me apne father ki taraf se likh
raha hu plz help me?
Regards,
Umesh Kumar
contact no:-9911037865
umeshk887@gmail.com
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ReplyDeletemdam maine apni beti ki shadi 10 oct 2010 ko kithi ...shadi k kuch din baad hi saas sasur ne uske zevar leliye aur 2 din baaad keh dia k kho gaye aur uski F.I.R bhi ni krai...aur kha k hum jaadu tone se zevr churaane wale ka pta lgaenge ..jo abi tak ni lag ska meri beti phisiotherapist hai aur ek chote se hospital mai work karti hai...shadi k baad se hi uske sasur ka kehna hai k meri biwi b salary mere hath m deti thi vaise hi tm b mere bete ko salary lake dogi jabke unka beta C.A hai aur pati ka kehna h k tum kmati ho tum apna kharcha khud uthao aur meri beti ki salary 5000 hai bas....aur ab vo log use aur pareshaan kar rhe h plz aap apn raae btaye m bhaut preshan hu...MERI BETI NE EK BAAR KHUD KHUSHI KARNE KI KOSHISH B KARI HAI PLZ AAP SALAAH DIJIYE THNKING YOU
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ReplyDeleteमे अगर पागल हु तो मेरी मा या मेरी पतनी मुजे समभालेगी या मे भी गलीयो मे खो जाउंगा । खुसी मनाओ हाथ पेर हे फ़ीर भी रोते हो । अपाहीज से तो बहेतर हो । ईनसाना रोता ही रहेता हे ओर रोता ही रहेगा जब तक अप्ने आप को जुका नही लेता कया हुआ कीसी ने मारा उस का सुभाव हे कुता काटता हे गाये दुध देती हे कभी सीकायेत की ? अपने आप को नीचा मत गीराओ जीना शीखो । ओर अपने भगवाना अला मालीक से दुआ करो जे शीरी राम बोलो हनुमान भगत की जेय
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